Egos are like tires, the best results occur when they are properly, but not overly inflated.

If y'all are wondering where does this "little pancake" shop located at, here you go..

200 Upper Thomson Road

#01-04, Thomson Imperial Court, singapore 574424

Didn't had a enjoyable weekend this time round as I was down with bad sorethroat and fever on & off since thursday. Youngersis accompanied me to the doctors & had lunch together before I made my way to granny's place. Vedelene came over to fetch me & mom for Little pancake after I had my power nap. Still, the fever did not subside even after sufficient rest.

Fri, I decided to go to work afraid they'll face lack of manpower if I were to stay at home, (my fever have not subside though) And guess what? I think it's really time for me to think for myself first before I spare a thought for others because nobody ever spared a thought for me. Didn't know that there's a total of 5 nurses at work on a friday morning & it made me flared. How could the selfish management be so self-centered that just by sending 1 text to me telling me there's enough nurses is as if it's similar to wanting their lives.. Went back home without informing anyone since nobody stood in my shoe to think for me. Slept the whole day at home, waking up just to take medications, Ved came over to fetch me & jolene for Sakae. Her treat :) Bloated max, I almost vomitted everything I ate. On our way home, unfortunately met with an accident. Worse is when the driver's such a beast giving no way out for Ved. Fuming mad! Been so long since I last went to the boy's crib. & finally, went up thinking he was fast asleep but he was explaining some movie to his mom. Waited for him to be done before we head to granny's. The boy wanted to follow youngersis & bf to Marina despite me being sick. So we had a deal to play scissors paper stone for fairness. I lost, & so I went with him. Can't imagine, I've been bringing water bottle to everywhere I go. So it was arcade, billiard & then supper @ Yewtee square. Can't resist when twister fried is at sight :P

So we reap what we sow. Woke up on saturday with a badly inflamed throat despite spamming 100litres of water the whole week... :( The boy then packed porridge for me (that was all that could flow through my throat) Had my medicines but didn't seemed to feel better. Watched "The voice" & receieved a fucking absurd call from Lanying saying my boss refused to sign my cheque. Yea, I was fuming mad at the top of fire swearing all I could. Immediately text my boss to sort out why the fuck he would resort to such despicable act. I don't remember having any MCs problems or lateness during the whole of december. I even went back to cover for two nurses what the fuck was he trying to imply when he said my clock ins & outs are in a mess. HILARIOUS! There he went giving me lousy excuses saying my schedules in the computer have to be re-edited as its in a total mess. Ya fuck. I don't think there should be any problems at alll. And fuck, even though I really didn't need my pay that soon yet, but it is what I deserved for the whole damn month cheesepie. I got to admit i really got a narrow-minded boss. Surprisingly the boy agreed to have little pancakes for dinner, so the both of us went. Applied oilment for me before sleep & we turned in together as usual.

Sunday morning, the boy wanted to bring me down to the clinic to collect my cheque but I was still sick and so decided to gave it a missed. So thankful I always have free massage from the boy whenever I wake up facing backache problems.. Fortunate to have him beside, taking care of me the whole boring weekend. He went to pack my breakfast as usual :D 1 thing I can never put my heart at ease, thats when the boy's going for his haircut, so at last I still went with him. Cooked spaghetti for the boy & family, turned out to be nice at my virgin try :) The boy kept praising, HEHE! Maybe he was hungry at that time la...Spent our sunday night together shopping for groceries, strolling @ Yewteepoint enjoying the night breeze walking aimlessly together :D Turned in early as he gotta work this morning..

See I brought a pale face all around

At marina 

My granny look so young in this outfit. Hehe!

Lastly, a picture of baby! 

The Annual Wage Supplement (AWS) is commonly known as the 13th month payment. It is a single annual payment to employees that supplements the total amount of annual wage earned by them.

Payment of AWS depends on the contractual agreement between the employer and the employee i.e. whether it is provided for in the employment contract or collective agreement.

An employer is not allowed to pay an AWS of more than three months' salary if:

• He/she agreed (either by way of an employment contract or collective agreement) to pay an AWS of up to three months' wages before the commencement of the Employment (Amendment) Act 1988 on 16 August 1988.
  
  However, the employer can negotiate with the employee, or the trade union representing the employee, to vary the quantum.

An employer is not allowed to pay an AWS of more than one month's wage if he/she:

• Has not paid any AWS prior to 16 August 1988.

If business results are exceptionally poor for any year, an employer may negotiate with the employees, or the trade union representing the employees, to adjust the AWS downwards.

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Bonus

Bonus is a one-time payment usually paid to employees at the end of the year to reward them for their contributions to the company.

(Extracted from http://www.mom.gov.sg/employment-practices/employment-rights-conditions/salary/Pages/variable-wage.aspx)

Live more complain less. Smile more less stress. Less hate eventually more blessed

 Last min decided to cover Yanxian on friday, and after work, I literally slept the day off alone without the boy. And finally, it's sakae feast with my dearest Eewin Liu! Had so much fun catching up making her go haywire in the midst of our meal. Hahaha! Back to Jolene's place right after lunch. Caught "Beyond" Episode 1 to 4. Next was an impromptu dinner at 216 with Elson, Joanna, Jolene, Vedelene and the boy. Csc for some boost & ksession, youngersis, raynard and yihan joined us not long after we reached. Halfway through, made a trip to Pohteck's granny's wake as it's nearby. My deepest condolences. I think all my relatives can't recognise me as it's been years we last met. Brought mum & aunt to csc to join us, had a small tiff with the boy and so I left first with Vedelene. Headed to 678 for supper with Grace and Jodi. Back home right after.

Turned in alone didn't expecting the boy to come back & hug me in his arms till the next morning when I woke, which is sunday. Had a few mouthful of breakfast that granny prepared. Virgin trip to "Little Pancakes" with youngersis & raynard. Didn't expect it to turn out quite appetizing. Aww! The taste of the pancakes still lingers in my mouth.. Chanced upon Diana (Alicia's eldersis) there as well, Chantelle was so talkative & cute..
Homed, Napped as usual.. You people must be thinking why we kept napping right? Time is very precious to us during weekends, we'll grasp any chance to sleep if time allows as we're always busy during weekdays, working 12 hours everyday.. The boy brought me for frogleg porridge before catching "taxi taxi" with youngersis and raynard. Hilarious but I still think Jack neo's film is far more better as compared to all local productions..

Look at this swee charbor.

I still think she look good in black hair.

My dearboy.

Always speaks like a lil boy to me.

What a heartwrenching news. At first I thought it was nonsense like

those people wanting "likes" from facebook.. Until I saw the news.

Oh my gawd. This is so damn humiliating & heartless.

Those beast should be hang & tortured before death!

(Picture above from Enqi)

Jolene's mouth lika sexy.

The two blissful couplets spending the last saturday of 2012 together.

Good service. HAHAHAA!
Early moring receive free massage.

 

Here it is..

Where everyday is a pancake day.

Big fan of all day breakfast

Chicks and cheesy

Ham and cheesy

Hohoho, I gotta cherish all these sweet lil texts from ahzeh

before she gives all her attention to her lil babyboy.

TRUE.

From my dear Yunhan baby.

Look! So cute of Eggy..

While preparing to countdown for 2013.

Prepared his clothes afraid he would wake me as I reached home earlier.

Swear it really brightened up my day

 The boy brought me for teckwhye's carrot cake as promised. Yayness, mad craving.. Not forgetting to love him more for buying me new clothes! Muahaha. Had a splendid night with the girlz, Lanying, Eewin, Jolene came over to my place while waiting for Ved to fetch us & head out together. Met up with Grace & Jodi over @ Galaxy. Yy, Joslyn, Sohboon & Ahjohn came to join us too.. Left early with Ved and Eewin as my gastric suddenly acts up. Fuck my life, didn't enjoyed ennough...... Nevertheless, I enjoyed the day dancing away with my ladies. Teckwhye 145 for Laksa before home.

 Went to pack breakfast for the whole family when I woke up this morning getting some gastric discomforts.. Napped the day away again before Ved came to fetch us for dinner. So it was Teppanyaki at Yewteepoint before Lot1 to meet up with Jos and eldersis & the lil princess Naomi :D I don't know why I keep feeling hungry easily these few days... Weird, I don't want my appetite to be back please!!

The princess & us :)

Losers see the pain, winners see the gain.

Right, there must be a reason why I'm blogging here now.. I'm having this small problem with this girl, who used to be my friend. It's not really nice to name it out here, so i'll just continue my point of view using "A" as an example. We were once very close friends, and split into two groups after some small misunderstandings.. Years after, we actually reconcile maybe because our perceptions have changed, I use the word "maybe" Ok, things were pretty okay and there "A" went, spamming facebook & twitter commenting about how broken her newly built family is, how lousy her husband is & etc. No wrongs, yup. Unfollowed her b'cse I dislike having messy timelines & I only those whom i'm interested about.. Friends still, of cause..

There was this guy whom I gave up because of Jboy (people who used to read my blog or have been reading all these years should know who) he some sort of waited for me for 4 damn years. Ok, maybe he didn't wait for me these 4 years, just that he couldn't find the right girl after I left (this was what he told me) Also, he've been the best guy I ever met in my life, put aside my dad.. He even got so much more points better than jboy that I could slowly list out but i don't find any reasons or need to do so.. I don't deny I really loved him, look it's "loved" not "love" He was so gentle, so kind, so thoughtful, so loving, too perfect too flawless. But I chose Jboy, common sense, I love jboy more right? Ya, So one of my friend got attached to him recently, named "B" Was quite shock to hear this but I totally know where I stand, I don't have any rights to stop or comment about their r/s because afterall, I was the one who broke his hearts & left him hanging there for 4 damn years.. Gave my blessings to "B" and him, things turn out eventually okay & peaceful until some of my friends (whom followed "A") on twitter told me that she was badmouthing, or rather, scolding me/them.

Given my temper, yes I flared and retaliated as I knew she would see my tweets (cse she's still my follower) she actually self-proclaimed that those tweets weren't referring to me. But unfortunately, her close friend "B" actually texted me apologizing for the commotion "A" made. So now what? Using your own words to slap yourself? Or you don't have any confidence in this relationship of the guy & "B" ?? You can't change the fact that we were once very happy together and he indeed loved me alot right? So what you can do is shut the fuck up and let them lead their HAPPY & ROMANTIC life, why stir troubles & comment about me when I did nothing to you or piss you off?! Nothing, right so stfu and myob! Yea yea yea, kept emphasizing that I keep raking up the past. LOOK WHOSE TALKING? I was merely having a normal chat with my friend why so agitated and affected? Yea, maybe some tweets of mine may misled you or maybe I misinterpret. But there's so many that you girls aren't sure of. More than what you think it is.

I think it's time I stop being so irritated by your tweets/facebook comments or whatever you spit. It's just a waste of time thinking that you're already a mom, sensible enough to judge & so. But nope, I was wrong. Yea, if you were to take our age to compare, I'm indeed younger than you. But the way you speak, react and retaliate makes you even more childish & crazy. I understand maybe you might be having depression due to the heavy workloads, broken family & so. But that doesn't mean you can misuse this advantage that everyone's giving in to you. Get the fucking facts right before you type idiotically.

Done with what to say. This shall end.
There's always a reason why I didn't chose him, right?
B'cse I love Jboy more than him, so no worries, I'm
giving my blessings to the new couple.

Shall take this chance to see how far my tolerance could go...........