You cannot push anyone up the ladder unless he is willing to climb

weekends are finally over and i've also completed my mission :D how about yours? 

spent half of my friday doing the house chores like getting the dirty sheets changed, washing and putting the laundries out and finally vacuuming and removing dusts trapped in every corners of our room. baobei came to fetch me for some groceries shopping after he knocked off as we're having guests at night, which is elson, joanna, wilson and celine :) and of course not forgetting the little terror enni and the little botak enxuan as well. it was more than just weekly catch up & gathering session now i know because i found joy in preparing delicious dinner for my friends too, not just cook for the sake of cooking.. 

so glad it's up to standard and i got no complains unexpectedly. hahaha, becos usually Wilson will be like "wa taste awful" or "you cook de can eat anot?" but surprisingly he didn't so i assume they're satisfied with the dinner I prepared ya? 

spaghetti with mushrooms and meatballs, cheesy hotdogs wrapped in bacon slices, minced meat egg, yong tau fu soup and steamed fish. got compliments so it's not as bad as i expected. 

so eggcited for the upcoming meet up sess with the two couples the next saturday and this time round it's gonna be elson and Joanna's turn to cook for us. wonder what they're gonna come up with.. 

and since we've got acetone here, Joanna decided to remove her pedicure which are almost falling off already.. and then her 24/7 filial hub volunteered to do it for her instead. haha so envious of them, i think we'd all melt if all our bfs are willing to do such thing for us la! 

one word to sum up our saturday night, awesome. my hard works paid off even tho' it's very tiring. lucky i have my fatty there to wash the dishes for me. oh yes and i've learnt not to look down on housewives anymore becos they have the longest working hours and endless tasks to take care of. I know now, that whipping up a dinner for six isn't as easy as i thought it was already, leave alone doing the house chores, and taking care of babies the whole day & night. 

had a good long sleep before gettin my ass off the bed to prepare myself and the things i'am supposed to bring to the "surprise" advanced birthday party for my dear fatty at east coast park. ohmygawd he almost spoiled the whole plan and mood on that day haha heaved a sigh of relief when it all went smooth and successful. 

while waiting for the right time to leave home, he made me cook a packet of instant noodles (prolly too hungry after work) hahaha not knowing there's a bbq sess afterwards. 

he was shocked when he saw wilson there at the chalet and the next thing he did was "臭宝贝! 骗我hor?! " hahaha glad we all put a smile on his face and after a whole month of preparation under table cooperating with his brothers i can finally stop hiding my phone away from him afraid he would see the whatsapp group chat. also, would like to thank velle sissy for helping me book when i wasn't able to do so on my phone, Wilson for checking in early, the friends that took time out to attend the birthday party and all his brothers for making themselves a part of this surprise celebration (some by providing beers, foods, & cakes, and some by suggesting ideas) most importantly we hid the secret well enough to allow zero awareness from the birthday boy! :) so happy when i see him happy too and i hope he appreciates all the effort we've put in and made. 

our virgin snap with the little botak #velinsiaenxuan :D 

Awfully chocolate cake didn't turn out as good as i expected though. 

The birthday boy with his boys

We all know they had fun when we see teeths instead of just smiles. right? :) 

stayed up the whole night doing girls talk with celine while the boys stayed outside to chat in a group. 

I got to say, Goldkist is definitely not gonna have me there for the second time with them after the first bad experience.. the only thing they provided us was one towel, two beds, a fan, an empty fridge, a non working air conditioner and a television for goodness sake! we were stunned upon knowing we have to pay for everything we asked for, by paying rents at the counter and there's no refund on check out except for the boiler. like extra towels each at $5, barbecue pit for $25 too! wtf? i thought we are supposed to have a pit each for all the chalet suites & rooms? i'd rather pay a higher amount for a better and cleaner chalet la? imagine the floor wasn't cleaned thoroughly, the aircon wasn't working, there were sands in the toilet, the sandy feeling you get when your body got in contact with the bed (even tho they had a white sheet covered on top), and the dim lighting at the bbq pit that makes us strain our eyes all the time.. you wouldn't want to really sleep there even just for a day... other than the tv and fan, i was utterly disappointed with all the others.  

nevertheless, it's still the best company that makes you forget all the awfulness afterall. the whole celebration was filled with so much laughters especially when the boys were busy playing soccer and open numbers. hahaha! am really grateful to everyone and I hope my fatty did had fun too.